Earl Simmons, better known as DMX, was one of hip-hop’s most intense and soul-baring artists. His gritty voice, rapid-fire delivery, and deeply personal lyrics made him a legend, but offstage, he often described his greatest accomplishment not as platinum albums or chart-topping hits, but as being a father. Despite a life marked by addiction, legal troubles, and financial hardship, DMX took immense pride in his large family, frequently calling his children his true legacy.

At the time of his passing in April 2021, DMX was the father of 15 children born to nine different mothers. He openly embraced his role as a dad, even as the complexities of his personal life drew public scrutiny.

Marriage to Tashera Simmons

DMX’s longest and most public relationship was with his ex-wife, Tashera Simmons. The two were childhood friends who married in 1999 and remained together for over a decade before divorcing in 2014. Though their marriage faced significant challenges, including DMX’s admitted infidelity, Tashera consistently spoke of his deep love for their four shared children:

• Xavier (born 1992)
• Tacoma (born 1999)
• Sean (born 2002)
• Praise Mary Ella (born 2005)

After the divorce, Tashera and DMX maintained a respectful co-parenting relationship. She often highlighted his devotion as a father, even during his darkest moments.

Engagement to Desiree Lindstrom

In the final years of his life, DMX was engaged to Desiree Lindstrom, whom he began dating around 2015. The couple welcomed a son together, Exodus Simmons, born in August 2016. Exodus was widely reported as DMX’s 15th child. Desiree has remained vocal about her grief following his death, sharing emotional tributes and stories of how much Exodus misses his father.

A Broader Family Tree

Beyond Tashera and Desiree, DMX fathered children with several other women. Among his additional children are:

• Sasha (with Patricia Trejo)
• Two children with model Yadira Borrego
• Sonovah Hillman Jr.
• Aaliyah (named in honor of the late singer Aaliyah)
• Javon Wayne (with Monique Wayne)
• Jada Oden
• Z’riyah, Emmanuel, and others

The exact names and birth orders have varied slightly across reports, but the total of 15 children has remained consistent in credible accounts.

DMX’s family life was undeniably complicated. He faced multiple child support cases, leading to arrests and jail time when he fell behind on payments. Financial struggles compounded the challenges of supporting such a large family across multiple households. Yet, in interviews and through his music, he repeatedly expressed remorse for his shortcomings while reaffirming his love for all his children.

Legacy of Fatherhood

DMX’s songs often touched on themes of redemption, faith, and family. Tracks like “Slippin’” and “I Miss You” revealed a vulnerable side rarely seen in gangsta rap at the time. He viewed fatherhood as a source of purpose and healing amid personal demons.

Following his death from a cocaine-induced heart attack at age 50, many of his children paid moving tributes at his memorial service. His older sons were later appointed as administrators of his estate, which sparked legal proceedings due to the absence of a will and the size of his family.

DMX’s story is one of contrasts: raw talent paired with inner turmoil, public notoriety alongside private devotion. Through it all, he remained unapologetically proud of his 15 children, insisting they were the most important part of his life. In the end, his family continues to carry forward the memory of a man who, despite his flaws, loved fiercely and left an indelible mark as both an artist and a father.

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